Monthly Archives: September 2010
Hi, my name’s Dan, and I’m quickly becoming an addict for certain varieties of Reality TV shows. No, not the grab the spotlight, Big brother wankfests of the worlds. But the talent show ones. Maybe I’m getting softer as I’m getting older, but how can you watch people hunting and catching their dreams, their passions and not be moved by it.
Sure there is the “look at me, look at me” contestants who just want their heads on TV, and yes, everyone in line will say that, that particular skill is their passion. BUT, those that seriously have that passion, those that can’t do anything else, those that are working at their craft even when it isn’t paying for them… now that is passion.
I was lucky enough to go to a show the other night. I saw someone I’ve known for almost 20 years, Gary Pinto someone my wife grew up with (and yes she even had a crush on this guy as a teenager, I am a dead man for writing that) launch his first solo album. It was an amazing night, firstly my wife and I don’t get out a lot since bub number 3 came along, so a grown up night out together was a blessing, but then to see him on stage. It took me back in my mind to 1993, it was one of my now wife’s and my first dates, we went (with a whole lot of her family and friends) to see Gary, his brother and 2 other best friends (CDB for those old enough to remember) perform at a local Dandenong pool. All of us fresh faced skinny 18 year olds or younger. And here we are 17 years later, and he is still following his passion and loving it. I felt humbled to witness it.
It’s an easy thing to say, you know, “yes, doing this is my passion” It is a widely over used term in my humble opinion. I’m not convinced that everyone can find their passion, their calling. It changes sometimes with circumstances, with time and with maturing. I know many people still searching for it. So it is so great to see people who obviously have found it, and see them persevere, through everything that life throws at them (as it does with everyone) and make things happen.
However, it rarely happens on their own, in the majority of cases I’ve truly seen this there is a strong support network behind, no… around the individual. The families, friends, business associates, mentors, confidants, and just great people, these people share in the journey, share the pride in the success, but stay in the background.
I may regret writing this later, but kids, Zach, Talia, Lexie, I’m saying this now, if/when you can find your passion, your calling, whether that be in the Arts, sports, academia, business, or just plain life, raising a family, your mum and I… well, we have your back. Know you have that support base, not just us, your parents, but our families, our friends, they’ll all be there for you. We’re packed now and ready for the journey.
As a Recruiter, or someone who works in the field of employing people, we have a honoured role in sometimes making dreams come true. Have you ever hired a grad? It’s their first every job, seen the look on their face? oh that’s the good stuff. even better, ever been there when they have told their parents? Seen the tears of pride well in the parents eyes. Oh yeah.. gimme some of that everyday please. Have you ever hired someone, or placed someone who had been out of work for ages, seen their savings whittle down, seen their eyes when you tell them you have an offer for them? To see the pride restored, Oh I love that. Sometimes you get the other side, breaking them down a bit with relaying a rejection, yes I’ve also had parents ring me up begging almost on behalf of their kids (that does break your heart). Don’t take this role lightly people, it has a real effect on lives.
Not many people I know chose to get into Recruiting, and I’ve known hundreds who have gotten into Recruiting and couldn’t wait to get out. I think Recruiting chooses you. You can see the ones who are in the industry, not just those who hold jobs in the industry, those that are IN the industry. You know who they are, when you talk to them, there is nothing in the world better than Recruiting, they live it, they breathe it, they talk about it out of office hours, and yes there are even silly ones, who blog, add content, join forums, run radio shows etc, all in their own time. I’m not convinced all this effort makes money for them, but they love it.
I hope, if your reading this, you get to find and live your passion too. Please share with me if you are, I am getting soft in my middle age..